On Being A Man Anew (1)
One musician did a song where he repeatedly asked, “Who Neva f*ck up hands in the air!” and repeatedly screamed an answer of, “No hands!” to the question. The situation is common. People won’t raise their hands and don’t want anyone to raise their hands to such questions. Everyone wants to be chilling in their f*cked-up state so they can freely go on messing around.
We are often quick to promote anything that unionizes, shelters, and excuses our habituation in recklessness.
We have abusive spouses who strongly believe that everyone abuses their spouse. We have people believing that everyone cheats on their spouse. Corrupt politicians believe that everyone is as corrupt. Manipulative preachers remain so because they believe they are legion and powerful in the community. Liars. Fraudsters. Thieves. Criminals. Rapists. Murderers. All believing that no one would raise a hand when the question is asked. They will quote the Bible scripture of Jesus saying “He that is without sin among you let him cast the first stone.”
People are happy with fu*cking up, and having the assurance that they are not alone. We are often quick to promote anything that unionizes, shelters, and excuses our habituation in recklessness. People are happy with anything that relieves them of principled responsibility. However, our call at ManAnew is toward principled responsibility and refining man in that light. We call men, women, boys, and girls to higher levels and consciousness of responsibility.
People are happy with anything that relieves them of principled responsibility.
For instance, if you are married, be married and be faithful to your spouse. If that is a commitment you cannot live by, make the position plain to your spouse. Let him know. Let her know. Be renewed, away from the commonplace character that accommodates wanton cheating. This has led many spouses to their early deaths. Some got diseases from spouses who remained unfaithful and continued having random unprotected sexual encounters outside their marriage.
Don’t be misty about it; when it concerns marriage, be constitutional, precisely knowing where your head is or where your tail wags. Be constitutional with your life.
“Who has never cheated on their spouse before? Hand in the air.”
The people will be happy to see no hand and to scream, “No hands!” But no, be that one spouse who will hear such a question and raise their hand, no matter the situation, location, and gathering. Evolve. As a married man, if one woman is not enough for you, one hundred will not be. The same goes for any married woman. And if you’re certain you can’t be content with your wife or husband, be very clear about this from the beginning. Don’t be misty about it; when it concerns marriage, be constitutional, precisely knowing where your head is or where your tail wags. Be constitutional with your life.
As a married man, if one woman is not enough for you, one hundred will not be.
“Who has never fought or beaten their spouse before? Hand in the air.”
People will expect no hand. Or they may expect a few. Let us make it odd that someone will even be thinking of such questions in this age. Advance. Refine. Be man anew. No form, height, or degree of provocation should justify the cannibalism of fighting or beating one’s partner, none! We cannot continue perpetrating evil against ourselves and against our loved ones because we lazily believe evil is routine with humanity.
We cannot continue perpetrating evil against ourselves and against our loved ones because we lazily believe that evil is routine with humanity.
